Couples
(My) Challenges of Working alongside a Partner who is not your Coworker
Or how to move through your struggles with your quarantine mate Funny story: While I was cleaning the bathroom, I was listening to a couples therapy training (for couples therapists) on my headphones, specifically about how to make a rapid repair of the beginnings of an argument, before it catches fire and turns into a…
< Read More >Uplift Your Relationship
Two simple things you can do this week to bring Goodwill to your Couple Relationship. Have you started the new year with energy and hope? Are you making strides on all of those resolutions you made? Are you excited about new things you’re working toward? Or maybe do you feel exhausted from the holidays still,…
< Read More >Two Ways to Say It
Have you ever had the experience when after having an argument with your partner, you think back on what was said, and feel proud of how you handled it? Or do you typically feel more righteous and indignant, and maybe even just madder? Or maybe regret what you said or yelled or insulted? I know…
< Read More >5 Tips to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage and Searching for Your Soulmate
What’s love got to do with it? It’s not easy to get the love we want. And often, when we don’t get that love that we want, we get angry or resentful and then it can be quite hard to even give the love we want to share. Generally, though, our relationships fare better when…
< Read More >Best Tips for Making Your Relationship More Secure
Learning how to calm yourself can help build security in your couple relationship.
< Read More >Best Tips for Being a Good Father
strength and tenderness make for being a strong dad
< Read More >How “Weakness” makes you Stronger
Today I’m talking about the dreaded V-word – not violence, but vulnerability. Well, I’m not sure if it really is dreaded, but I do know that when I mention it to (many of) my clients, I see a flicker of a look in their eyes that looks like dread or horror to me.
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